If you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy and feeling pressured into having an abortion, it’s essential to know that how you move forward with your pregnancy is your choice.
Studies show that if you feel pressured into an abortion, you’re more likely to suffer adverse mental health effects. According to the Journal of American Physicians and Surgeons, nearly 75% of women who had an abortion felt at least subtly pressured into making the decision, and many suffered psychological effects afterward, including:
- Depression
- Guilt
- Shame
- Regret
- Self-hatred
- Feelings of worthlessness/being unworthy of love
- Anxiety
- Thoughts or attempts of suicide
Your well-being and health are on the line. This is your choice. Read on to learn more about what to do if your partner pressures you. Or, if you want to talk to someone in person about your pregnancy options, contact Vie Medical Clinic to be connected with one of our caring team members. All appointments and resources are free and confidential.
Research Your Pregnancy Options
The best way to know how to move forward in your pregnancy is by researching your options. Only when you know all the facts can you make a confident decision. Your three pregnancy options are abortion, parenting, or adoption.
While you can do research on your own regarding these options, it can also be helpful to talk to a trusted source about each option’s pros, cons, and risks. Talking to someone you trust can help you work through your thoughts and feelings to find what’s best for you.
At Vie Medical Clinic, we offer Options Counseling. During your appointment, we provide medically-backed information about your options, giving you the space to ask questions. This appointment is free, confidential, and non-judgmental.
Tell Your Partner What You’re Thinking
If your partner is pressuring you into an abortion, it’s likely because he is worried about being a parent. While his feelings are understandable, he’s more likely to be open-minded if you tell him what you want to do with your pregnancy and why.
When talking to your partner, considering the following can help you organize your thoughts and feel prepared:
- What pregnancy decision are you leaning toward and why?
- What pregnancy decision do you want to avoid?
- What are some practical ways your partner can support you in your pregnancy decision?
Next Steps
Facing an unplanned pregnancy can feel overwhelming, but you’re not alone. At Vie Medical Clinic, we’re here for you. We offer free pregnancy resources and information that can help you feel confident about how to move forward in your pregnancy. Contact us today to schedule your appointment with one of our caring team members.
